You have been friends with this girl for years and every time you see her, your heartbeats increase because you think “she’s the one for me”. You try talking to her but for some reason you manage to sputter out a quick and nervous “hello.”
Have you been crushing on a girl for some time and don’t know what to do to take your relationship to the next level? Here are 6 tips to get you and your crush out of the friends zone and to become an official couple!
Tip #1: Ask yourself if being in a relationship is what you want- In today’s society, most guys are in a relationship with a girl who eventually cheats and dumps them for someone better. Some guys prefer to be single because they can do whatever they want whenever they want without letting drama from their ex girlfriend get in their way of living their life. You have to ask yourself this before considering to enter into a relationship: “Is being in a relationship what I really want right now?” Happiness matters for everyone so if you don’t want to be in a relationship, then you don’t have to be in one.
Tip #2: Find out if your girl is single or not- You can do this by asking her friends or going on Social Media to see if she is available or if she’s taken by her prince charming. By finding out if your true love is free, this increases your chances of finding out if “she” is the one for you.
Tip #3: Get to know your girl- Find out what her dreams, hobbies and interests are. Not only does this show that you want to be with her by doing things that she loves to do but you may find something in common with her. The ability to finding something in common is the key to a happy, healthy and successful relationship.
Tip #4: Asking her where she would like to go on a date- When you have gotten to know your girl a bit better, ask her where she would like to go on a first date? If she can’t come up with a perfect romantic first date, suggest an ideal spot where the both of you can have your first date together. By going on dates, it indicates to you if this girl likes you or not.
Tip #5: DO NOT KISS HER ON THE FIRST DATE- First dates are meant for two people to get to know each other. You can save the kissing and everything else for future dates in the relationship.
Tip #6: Being Positive- If things don’t work out with the girl you had a crush on for a while, there are plenty of other girls out there who would love to date an awesome guy!
And…… there you have it! I believe that there is someone special for everyone and I hope this helps the guys who need or want to know everything there is in the Dating Game!
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